It is not normally easy to disentangle yourself from a chain that one is tied with. The situation even becomes more complicated when you are not aware that you are under some external influence that is beyond your control. In order to break a spell therefore, you need to be a little bit cautious. Some wisdom is required to deal with such a situation.

Relationships have a soft spot for spells. Control of affairs is always totally taken by one of the spouse. A third party is at times involved in terms of consultations. Such a lover makes you extremely dependent on them such that without them you fell totally void. They end up being your key decision makers on serious life issues. This is a spell in its best sense.

Being in a position to dominate the thoughts and actions of someone is an overwhelming experience. Some people can do everything to gain this control. This is normally not realized by the misused party, making them more helpless and vulnerable. People who try to bring the back to reality are labeled haters. It is normally too late when they realize that they were actually duped.

Being self aware is the greatest gift you can offer to yourself. Both your weaknesses and strengths make up the whole you. You are actually inhuman when you are without defects, since you will be tending towards the divine. The urge to be stronger and more human is what keeps one going. Accept yourself as you are and never try to be someone else. However, totally neglecting other proposals from people is unwise.

At times there is a feeling of self worth that comes to a person making them to behave as if others are lesser beings. This is risky as it makes others shy of helping us when they get the chance to. Those who observe us from the sides can be quite instrumental in making us more aware of ourselves. It is good to have open ears and closed mouths in some situations. The before you leap is thus a saying that comes handy.

Having big ears and a small mouth is thus a prerequisite for breaking a spell. At some point the situation might be quite offending or humiliating but swallow your pride. It is said that pride comes before a fall. The wisest man on earth is that who recognizes the reality that we cannot have things happening our way all the time. Sometimes we need to take what others propose into consideration and act upon them.

The second and crucial step is to take the necessary step, however hurting it might be. In most cases it is someone closest to you like your spouse who puts you into such situations. Through the freedom that you give them, they can make your life miserable if you are not careful. The decision might involve speaking the truth and stopping some evil acts that have been happening in the background.

Anyone should not brag since we are all vulnerable to a spell. Instead, each of us needs basic skills of breaking loose when the situation allows. Vigilance is mandatory. Positive thinking and deep situational analysis are vital to all of us. Learn to stand by your decisions.